sharing an apartment with friends
sharing an apartment with friends..
I know that soon or later I will do that .. because I have no relatives in spore or I want to rent a studio apartment for myself(I won't be able to afford for it..plus it only increase my living cost even if it's affordable...hehehe)
so I have started to live together with my friends..after staying all alone in a single room in PGP where every stuff that I have is confined into my room(except for some cooking utensils in the common kitchen cabinet )
plus for temporaryly I have to share a room with my friend..
there is plus n minus points...but for sure I have to adapt again for communal living (as if I am staying with 10 ppl in the apartment..hehehe)
this month alone..we had two celebrations...one birthday celebration n one graduation celebration....
I enjoyed those moments...laughing ..sharing jokes..taking candid pictures with my housemates but the other side it reminds me that I never celebrate my birthdays with my family for so long..the last celebration with my whole family was back in 1997...just two weeks before my sister left for her study...
then those moment when we were having fun together at home...watching night movies ... doing the housechores..hanging out during weekends or even just sitting down together at the living room...
also kinda reminder that there are people who wait for me at home.
but there are minus points also
when i am having a bad mood or just an urge to avoid talking for a moment..last time my room was my sanctuary..but now in the new apt I don't have my own room..
so when I simply wanna be alone..I miss my own room which is "separated" from the outside world
the most important point that I have learnt during the past 2 months..
it reminds that I have to be tolerant and considerate to others n stop being selfish.I am only a single individual in this big world..there are many people who are better than me.
the same points which were pointed out by my friend during my last retreat. He described me as the arrogant, attenstion-seeker person who have no consideration. for a moment, I felt as if someone just punched right on my face..it took me about 2 months to really digest his words n slowly understand why he had such opinions on me
I didn't realise that confining myself in my room had changed me to be an indivualistic person who ignored her surrounding...thinking herself at the centre of the universe...
in conclusion.. I'm glad to have my friends who wanna accept the way I am and most importantly change me to be the better person who appreciate the gifts she has received and less individualistic..
note: I will some photos in the next few days..so keep checking my blog kay.
I know that soon or later I will do that .. because I have no relatives in spore or I want to rent a studio apartment for myself(I won't be able to afford for it..plus it only increase my living cost even if it's affordable...hehehe)
so I have started to live together with my friends..after staying all alone in a single room in PGP where every stuff that I have is confined into my room(except for some cooking utensils in the common kitchen cabinet )
plus for temporaryly I have to share a room with my friend..
there is plus n minus points...but for sure I have to adapt again for communal living (as if I am staying with 10 ppl in the apartment..hehehe)
this month alone..we had two celebrations...one birthday celebration n one graduation celebration....
I enjoyed those moments...laughing ..sharing jokes..taking candid pictures with my housemates but the other side it reminds me that I never celebrate my birthdays with my family for so long..the last celebration with my whole family was back in 1997...just two weeks before my sister left for her study...
then those moment when we were having fun together at home...watching night movies ... doing the housechores..hanging out during weekends or even just sitting down together at the living room...
also kinda reminder that there are people who wait for me at home.
but there are minus points also
when i am having a bad mood or just an urge to avoid talking for a moment..last time my room was my sanctuary..but now in the new apt I don't have my own room..
so when I simply wanna be alone..I miss my own room which is "separated" from the outside world
the most important point that I have learnt during the past 2 months..
it reminds that I have to be tolerant and considerate to others n stop being selfish.I am only a single individual in this big world..there are many people who are better than me.
the same points which were pointed out by my friend during my last retreat. He described me as the arrogant, attenstion-seeker person who have no consideration. for a moment, I felt as if someone just punched right on my face..it took me about 2 months to really digest his words n slowly understand why he had such opinions on me
I didn't realise that confining myself in my room had changed me to be an indivualistic person who ignored her surrounding...thinking herself at the centre of the universe...
in conclusion.. I'm glad to have my friends who wanna accept the way I am and most importantly change me to be the better person who appreciate the gifts she has received and less individualistic..
note: I will some photos in the next few days..so keep checking my blog kay.
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